Okay so, I fear that my relationship is in trouble. I don't understand why its so hard to have both my friend and my boyfriend in my life, why do I have to throw a friend away because of conflicts that happened before we started to date? Life isn't fair, thats always been clear to me, when something good happens, its followed by lots of bad. When a friends in trouble, and needs someone in there life to talk to, and who has made bad choices but is a good person underneath it all.. shouldn't you always be there for that friend, expecially if their your best friend? My boyfriend just doesn't seem to understand that we're really good friends.. He hates him. But if my friends willing to try and make up for old mistakes, and prove hes doing better.. shouldn't my boyfriend try and be more understanding seeing as how much this is hurting. Ughhh!


As I said, life's unfair.. but what can we do?

My life sucks, all i wanna do is hang out with one of my bestfriends and my boyfriend Matt wont have it, this guy was involved in some mest up shit when we first started being friends, was into drugs, ripping people off.. one of thoes people he ripped off was my boyfriend, but it was before we were even dating and my friends been to jail since then, he says hes smartening up and I want to be there for him, i want to see him do good with his life not go down the drain, but Matt wont have that, he hates the guy more than anything. Matt seems to think that my friends going to try to get with me or something when he never tried anything before, why now? And hes got a girlfriend hes been with for over a year. This is eating away at me, how is our relationship going to take this? Im not dropping my friend because he wants me too, people can change and i think my friend is going to be one of them, anyway im out, just needed to vent.